Sort negative comments into 4 types, decide whether to reply, hide or block, and copy 15 reply scripts, word-filter settings and a move-to-DM message, for shops and pages facing a bad comment today.
When a bad comment lands under a sales post, the hand types a reply before the head decides, and a small thing becomes a big one. This article gives a short order of thinking: reply, hide, block or move to a private chat, plus 15 scripts for situations shops meet often.
Key takeaways
- Sort a comment into 4 types before replying: on-topic, emotional, spam or attack
- Reply to on-topic ones; hide or block spam and attacks; move anything with customer data to a private chat
- Set word filters in advance and review every incident to fix the root cause
NoteChecked Oct 2026
Menu names for filtering and hiding comments on Instagram, Facebook and TikTok change position and wording from time to time. This article uses the names the help centers and feature explainers give at this time. If your app differs, search for comments or moderation in the platform's settings and help center.
Assess first: 4 types of negative comment
Not every negative comment is the same. Ask one question first: what does this comment want? Then place it in one of the boxes.
4 types of negative comment
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WarningDo not hide on-topic complaints
Hiding or deleting a real complaint makes other people more suspicious, and the commenter often still sees their own comment and gets angrier. Reply so people see someone is looking after it, then move the fix to chat.
Decision tree: reply, hide, block or report
Go down the list one step at a time and stop at the first one that fits.
Check whether there are facts to verify
If the comment refers to an order, product or service, open the records before replying. Do not reply from feeling. If there are facts, reply briefly in public and move to private.
Check for spam or strange links
If so, hide, delete or report using the platform's menu. Do not reply; replying pushes the spam post up.
Check for profanity, threats or personal data
If present, hide or delete, then block or report if it repeats. Keep a screenshot as evidence.
If it is pure emotion, reply once, briefly
Acknowledge the feeling, invite a private chat and do not argue on. If the other side answers with the same hostility, stop replying.
Do
Public reply: say you received it, apologize if you were wrong, state the next step
Don't
Do not: type an order number, phone number or address of the customer in a comment, because it is personal data
Public reply versus private chat
Anything that identifies a customer belongs in a private chat only. This matches the spirit of Thailand's Personal Data Protection Act B.E. 2562 (checked Oct 2026); this article is not legal advice, so ask a professional if things escalate.
15 situations and replies: damaged, late, price, fake, sabotage
The shops and numbers in the replies are invented examples. Put your own details in the curly-brace blanks and match the tone to how your shop normally talks to customers.
Reply scripts, situations 1 to 8
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Reply scripts, situations 9 to 15
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Invite to a private chat
Invented example: a bakery named Sample Bakery puts the page chat as the channel and today as the time. The message reads naturally and blames nobody.
Reply to an on-topic comment
Invented example: the problem is a dented box, the result is that the item inside is fine but we will gladly send a new one. The message gives both the result and the next step in three sentences.
TipPause for 10 minutes
If you are angry, draft the reply and leave it for 10 minutes. If you still feel fine after, post it. A reply typed in anger is the one that gets screenshotted.
Word filters and comment limits on each platform
Set these before trouble starts so spam and profanity never show up for others in the first place.
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Start the filter list with common profanity, names of pages that paste ads, and words that push people to other apps. Review the list monthly, because people keep changing spellings to slip past it.
NoteFilters are not a gag for customers
Do not put words like slow, broken or not as pictured in a filter, because it hides every real complaint. Filters are for spam and profanity only.
When to move to a private chat
Move to chat when there is identifying data, when images or documents are needed, when order history must be checked, or when the other side is upset and needs a longer talk.
Needs an order number or address: reply briefly in the comment, then invite to chat
Needs damage photos: ask for photos in chat, not in the comment
Customer replies many times with no end: ask to talk in chat, then stop replying in the comments
Payment issue: talk in chat and do not ask for slips or account numbers in public
After it is resolved, you may ask a willing customer to update the original comment or write a new review, but never ask them to delete it and never offer something in exchange for deleting.
Review after the incident
Every on-topic negative comment is information about your shop. Note it and fix the cause within 24 hours of closing the case.
Review after the incident
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Should I delete negative comments
Delete or hide only spam, profanity, threats or exposed personal data. Reply to on-topic complaints; do not delete them.
What if a customer writes a fake review
Check order history, reply once with brief facts and report it through the platform's menu. The platform decides, so nobody can promise removal.
Should I reply to every negative comment
Reply to on-topic and emotional ones from real customers. Spam and attacks need no reply.
What is the difference between hiding and deleting
Hiding lets the author still see their own comment; deleting removes it for good. Check each platform's help center for details.
Should I threaten legal action in a comment
No. Public threats usually make things bigger. If it may be unlawful, keep evidence and ask a professional.
Summary
Sort comments into 4 types, reply only to the on-topic ones, move customer data to private chat, set filters in advance and review each incident to fix the root cause. A shop that replies politely and steadily shows passers-by that someone is really there.
